Förnuft och känsla

Jag måste ju ändå säga att begreppet mobbing devalverats något sanslöst sedan internettet slog igenom ändå ut på landsblygden. Och att jag skulle vilja ha en nyanserad diskussion kring varför ett känslomässigt uppbyggt argument är en betydligt värre sågning än ett distanserat avståndstagande. Yeah yeah, you wish.

Såhär. Att med finess och fyndigt raljerande såga någons bristande argumentation, peka på kunskapsbrister och uttrycka förakt är mycket väl accepterat så länge man distanserar sig från den man kritiserar. Man ska inte visa några känslor, bara kliniskt konstatera. Gärna snyggt och sylvasst. Ofta fegt.

Men om man med adrenalinpåslag och bristande impulskontroll säger att man faktiskt hatar någon så är det gyttjigt, fult och elakt. Man är en ”ond jävel” som någon nyss kommenterade.

Hur kommer det sig att en ärlig, oputsad känsla är det värsta man kan uttrycka? Att man ska separera på intellekt och sina egna känslor för att inte vara ”ond”? Kan inte ett helt upprört ”JAG HATAR BIRRO” vara ett mycket schysstare uttryck än ett kallt, nedlåtande isärplockande av hans kvalifikationer och identitet som vi ser den?

Att leverera sitt påstående med sina egna känslor som avsändare är ju att våga vara delaktig, att bjuda på sig själv och att diskutera med betydligt större ärlighet.

 

So long, Siv

63 svar to “Förnuft och känsla”

  1. Anna Says:

    Gillar dig, Siv. Dina tankar och ditt sätt att skriva.
    Och den här texten fick mig att tänka på den här låten:

  2. Lady Dahmer (@ladydahmer) Says:

    jag tycker inte att det är mobbing specifikt att säga att man hatar nån. Verkligen inte. Då tycker jag nästan det är värre med det där som förkläs i fina och välmenande ord men som likt knivar hittar målet. (som det är tänkt)

    – men det blir lätt en mobbingsstämningnär nån säger nåt negativt om nån öppet och flera personer hakar på och sen sitter och totalt gör ner denna person. gång på gång.

    • kvinnopartaj Says:

      Ja, det håller jag helt med om.

      Men jag tycker också att det blir urfånigt att kalla vår kritik av UC för ”mobbing”. Hon får hundratals älsk-kommentarer dagligen och bör då enligt mig även ha utrymme för de som inte älskar det hon gör. Vår kritik är ju en extremt liten del av den allmänna uppfattningen av henne. Jag tycker faktiskt det spelar roll. Och det är ett hån mot de som utsätts för mobbing att jämföra en extremt liten mängd kritiker med deras plågoandar.

  3. Lady Dahmer (@ladydahmer) Says:

    ”Kan inte ett helt upprört ”JAG HATAR BIRRO” vara ett mycket schysstare uttryck än ett kallt, nedlåtande isärplockande av hans kvalifikationer och identitet som vi ser den?”

    ja. precis så. (var för snabb med att posta)

  4. Lady Dahmer (@ladydahmer) Says:

    asså herregud, jag håller ju med om hela inlägget.

    problem: läser för fort och svarar innan jag läst ordentligt.

  5. Ia Says:

    Jag håller också med fullständigt.
    Lyckades att ringa upp ett nyligen avslutat prassel och skälla ut vederbörande som svar på ett ytterst otrevligt och orättvist sms.
    Jag är stolt över min bristande impulskontroll och äkta känsloreaktion.

  6. Den gamle Says:

    Vad fan är det som händer? Har du tappat det lilla du hade helt Ladydahmer?

  7. Eva Says:

    Måste säga att läsa kvinnopartaj är lite som att borsta tänderna med aquafresh. Ja man hör ju på namnet, uppfriskande och härligt.

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